Watch out for the influences that your own imagination and expectations will have on your dating journey; be aware and on the lookout for the disparities of what you have in your mind versus what’s actually present and happening in reality.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 10)

Welcome back to another blog post about dating! Today, we will talk about the process of getting to know someone and what you should be aware of (or look out for) as you date. So you are not overwhelmed, the list of lessons we have already discussed and covered in previous blogs is accessible here. 67. Expect Rejection; Don’t Think Every Date Will Go Well Drop the need to always win, succeed, or never get rejected. If a date doesn't go well, do not take it personally. Don't go into a date thinking that if the person doesn't like you,

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Personally, someone teaching me or me teaching someone how to give pleasure has got to be one of the hottest things ever. You can role play and it’s about you receiving pleasure while they’re learning! How is that a losing situation at all? The trade-off is only time and patience–but you’re enjoying or will be the one enjoying the results and payoff!

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 7)

Welcome back guys! I hope you all have been doing well, and are safe and healthy. Today, we'll be finishing up the second half of the Sex portion of The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating blog series. As always, here's the recap right underneath. You can click on any lesson to be taken to the post it was discussed in. Part 1 Evaluate Yourself Before You DateYou Are SpecialHave StandardsLove Yourself BEFORE DatingIt’s Okay to Be Alone Part 2 Be YouLeave Anyone Who Cannot Accept You For YouHave a Healthy Attitude About Relationships and LoveHave a Healthy Mindset

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Don’t use sex to confirm your worth or get validation, because when things end between you two and he (or she) is no longer there, your entire self-esteem and self-confidence will crumble with them.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 6)

Welcome back, guys! We’re now on Part 6 of The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating blog series. As promised, today we’re going to discuss SEX and how it affects dating. One special note I want to first make before I begin this particular post is that how you view sex will determine how it will affect you during your dating journey. Also, as you read, you’ll be able to tell that I am really passionate about this specific topic because many of these things personally happened to me. So, buckle up because this one will be really in

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When you are your own individual being, and are proud and comfortable under your own skin, you will be loved and cherished as you are and the way you deserve to be.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 2)

We’re back with another dating post! This will be Part 2 of my 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating series.  If you have not seen Part 1, click on the link (Part 1) and you’ll be taken there.  Let’s dive right in. 6) Be You Everyone has insecurities. There is always something about themselves that they do not like. I have cellulite and small pooch I’d love to get rid of. I have a bad habit of not being able to stand up for myself and I squeeze my toothpaste from wherever I grab the tube. I have to

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The best attitude I think that works for dating is to have boundaries, respect, and love for yourself first and foremost, THEN just go out there, have an open mind, meet different people, have fun, and let things play out organically on their own.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 1)

Hi guys! Welcome back to my blog! I hope you and all your loved ones are safe and sound during this global pandemic. I know it’s been awhile since I last published a post, but all for good reason because I’ve been experiencing and learning a lot about myself and dating (and I had a project I needed to turn in by May 1st). Don’t worry, I stopped dating before the pandemic started, but I was taking time to emotionally and mentally recover and get myself together before I could objectively write this post. And it’ll be a great one,

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