We’re all humans and we’re all shaped and formed by different experiences. Hence, we will not click with everyone. And that is a key concept that you need to understand when finding the person who you will enter a romantic relationship with; it’s who is compatible and who complements you despite your different backgrounds, personalities, histories, baggage, and life experiences.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 9)

Hello and welcome back to Part 9 of The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating blog series. The recaps are getting longer, so I will put them at the end of the post; that way, you guys don’t have to scroll through ALL of it to get to the main meat and potatoes. Therefore, if you want to check out what we have talked about before this post, scroll all the way down to the end. Otherwise, let’s head straight into the post! 62. Do Not Ever Try to Persuade or Give Your Date Reasons to Keep You Around

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Everyone has different preferences, different opinions, and different experiences. Everyone has different things that make them happy and finding a relationship is about finding someone who makes YOU happy. So YOU create the rules.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 3)

Welcome back! Today will be Part 3 of our "The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating" series. Here's a recap of what we have covered so far: Part 1 Evaluate Yourself Before You DateYou Are SpecialHave StandardsLove Yourself BEFORE DatingIt's Okay to Be Alone Part 2 Be YouLeave Anyone Who Cannot Accept You For YouHave a Healthy Attitude About Relationship and LoveHave a Healthy Mindset TooThe Person You Will Date/Have a Relationship with is a PersonDo Not Fall for the Fake Online Dating/Relationship Tips and Advice of So-Called "Gurus"Love is Not like Disney, Rom-Coms, or Any Romantic Novels/MoviesThere is

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When you are your own individual being, and are proud and comfortable under your own skin, you will be loved and cherished as you are and the way you deserve to be.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 2)

We’re back with another dating post! This will be Part 2 of my 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating series.  If you have not seen Part 1, click on the link (Part 1) and you’ll be taken there.  Let’s dive right in. 6) Be You Everyone has insecurities. There is always something about themselves that they do not like. I have cellulite and small pooch I’d love to get rid of. I have a bad habit of not being able to stand up for myself and I squeeze my toothpaste from wherever I grab the tube. I have to

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The best attitude I think that works for dating is to have boundaries, respect, and love for yourself first and foremost, THEN just go out there, have an open mind, meet different people, have fun, and let things play out organically on their own.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 1)

Hi guys! Welcome back to my blog! I hope you and all your loved ones are safe and sound during this global pandemic. I know it’s been awhile since I last published a post, but all for good reason because I’ve been experiencing and learning a lot about myself and dating (and I had a project I needed to turn in by May 1st). Don’t worry, I stopped dating before the pandemic started, but I was taking time to emotionally and mentally recover and get myself together before I could objectively write this post. And it’ll be a great one,

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