Everyone has different preferences, different opinions, and different experiences. Everyone has different things that make them happy and finding a relationship is about finding someone who makes YOU happy. So YOU create the rules.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 3)

Welcome back! Today will be Part 3 of our "The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating" series. Here's a recap of what we have covered so far: Part 1 Evaluate Yourself Before You DateYou Are SpecialHave StandardsLove Yourself BEFORE DatingIt's Okay to Be Alone Part 2 Be YouLeave Anyone Who Cannot Accept You For YouHave a Healthy Attitude About Relationship and LoveHave a Healthy Mindset TooThe Person You Will Date/Have a Relationship with is a PersonDo Not Fall for the Fake Online Dating/Relationship Tips and Advice of So-Called "Gurus"Love is Not like Disney, Rom-Coms, or Any Romantic Novels/MoviesThere is

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When you are your own individual being, and are proud and comfortable under your own skin, you will be loved and cherished as you are and the way you deserve to be.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 2)

We’re back with another dating post! This will be Part 2 of my 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating series.  If you have not seen Part 1, click on the link (Part 1) and you’ll be taken there.  Let’s dive right in. 6) Be You Everyone has insecurities. There is always something about themselves that they do not like. I have cellulite and small pooch I’d love to get rid of. I have a bad habit of not being able to stand up for myself and I squeeze my toothpaste from wherever I grab the tube. I have to

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The best attitude I think that works for dating is to have boundaries, respect, and love for yourself first and foremost, THEN just go out there, have an open mind, meet different people, have fun, and let things play out organically on their own.

The 75+ Lessons You Should Know Before Dating (Part 1)

Hi guys! Welcome back to my blog! I hope you and all your loved ones are safe and sound during this global pandemic. I know it’s been awhile since I last published a post, but all for good reason because I’ve been experiencing and learning a lot about myself and dating (and I had a project I needed to turn in by May 1st). Don’t worry, I stopped dating before the pandemic started, but I was taking time to emotionally and mentally recover and get myself together before I could objectively write this post. And it’ll be a great one,

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I strongly, strongly recommend everyone not to post a picture of yourself with your friend. Because WHAT IF people saw your friend and thought they were cute and NOT you when you’re the one looking for a date?

Why Online Dating Sucks/Is Funny

Note: featured image for this post is from The Guardian Hi guys! I’m back with another Life blog post and today’s topic is yes... Relationships. *gasp* Specifically dating! (oooooh) Even more specifically: why online dating sucks/is funny  Image from The Washington Post At least for me.  Disclaimer: You’re entitled to your own opinion about online dating because you most likely have a different experience than me. Well, you should because...I hope we’re not dating the same people.  Anyway, I inserted myself into the dating scene because tick tock (!) I’m in my mid-20s and a few of my friends are

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Dates. Married people are happy they don’t have to deal with them anymore and single people like them for two reasons. One, they make you feel special because someone is actually taking out a few hours of their life to make an effort to impress you and make you feel special, desirable, and have those fluttery butterfly feelings in your stomach. Two, it’s a great way to meet and get to know new people.

11 Warning Signs That Your First Date Is Going Bad

Disclaimer: All images used in this post do not belong to me. The featured image of this post is from Garfield.com. Also, this post is rated PG-13, so if you are sensitive to bad words, stay clear from this post. This is an expletive-laden post meant for humor and cathartic purposes. Only responsible adults are allowed past this point. You have been warned.  Dates.  Image from Pinterest Married people are happy they don’t have to deal with them anymore and single people like them for two reasons. One, they make you feel special because someone is actually taking out a

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